mamab

I really wish I had some words of advice for you. I would suspect, as well, that some of your daughter's issue is hormones. Perhaps you can check with your family doctor to see if there's something you can do, medically to help her out. I have a friend that swears by herbal teas when her daughter (who's also 12) starts getting PMSy.

In regard to your son, I just don't know. Neither of my boys are particularly sensitive, so I have no frame of reference. I'm sorry. I hope that someone else will be able to advise you.