Stephanie2377

Is this something new, or has he always been afraid of the dark? If it is something new, it might be the manifestation of other fears (perhaps something happening at school) So, I would explore this first and foremost.

Next, he is old enough that you can discuss with him what options there are. If you feel strongly that he sleeps in his own bed, tell him that. You can say that you know it can be scary for him, and why don't the two of you figure out ways to make it less scary. Maybe he can pick out some cool nightlights (or maybe a lava lamp!). Or, you can create some ritual to help keep him safe at night. (a friend of mine's 8yo would line his bed with superheroes to "keep the monsters away")

You could do a worry/fears jar with him. He just writes down his worries/fears, and then can stick them in the jar so he doesn't have to worry about them during the night.

Is there one thing in particular that scares him most in the dark?

I can't imagine how tough this must be for you all. Please keep us updated!