docb64

Thanks for that advice, yes I do know that we have enabled him, or at least allowed it to occur. That is about to change, as for college, it was a real college, that was for the first semester only, the rest of the money came from grants, loans and scholarships. PS I am having to face this type of thing with employees, were you or I learned from the example of others, worked hard because we saw others working hard and have grown up that way, what I am learning is that the newer generation does not think like that, they want everything handed to them because they deserve it, not because they earned it. Thanks for the replies.