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Old 02-15-2007, 10:04 AM   #9
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Default Re: When to back off the high achievement path

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Originally Posted by happy2bg33k View Post
Thank you for that Janet. I try very hard to not place my expectations on my children and let them develop into themselves. I know in the end she will become a good person, but don't we always want our children to have it easier than we do? The eternal parent dilemma...
Yes, deep in our hearts we want to have nothing but good things for our kids. Yet it's in the struggles that we grow.

I say that, and I mean that, but anytime something hurts my kid I'm miserable that she's in pain.

Sometimes the struggle is to know what things build character or have other meanings for their future and what things don't.
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