Steve

Welcome. I'm a relative newbie myself, but certainly can identify with your experiences. I'm a stepdad, and have watched my 18 yr old stepdaughter do everything but listen to mom or me. She's now pregnant, unmarried, no job, no HS diploma, unable to pass the GED (6 tries now, I think), unable and unwilling to drive, etc.

I just try to remember the tact my parents took: They teach me right from wrong, and how to make my own decisions. The rest of my life is mine to live as I please.

Satisfy yourself that you've done your best with that.

I'm also a big fan of Rev. Joyce Meyer who reminds us regularly that you can't change someone who doesn't want to be changed.

Good luck - it sounds like you're giving it your best. With every month that goes by, she'll grow older and more mature and hopefully recognize your lessons in time.