Re: Overly Sensitive 9 yr. old? | | I know what this is like. Having struggled myself as a child I can say that this is not easy to understand. Getting help from an MD, PHD or social worker is excellent advice. I would also consider counseling as an approach to helping your daughter understand her unique sensitivity and how she can apply her sensitivity within her daily life.
I find it surprising that heightened sensitivity is still a mystery to so many. Sensitivity is a powerful gift. It has served me well in all aspects of my life - particularly relationships. What becomes challenging is that the swings between good and bad feelings are extreme and feel totally real to those of us who are more sensitive.
I know from my own experience that feeling secure in my environment and relationships is important. Has anything at school changed recently? Has a family member, teacher or close friend moved? There are some very good books on the subject of raising sensitive children. Search through Amazon using sensitive, spirited, intuitive as keywords.
I am sure it is painful to see your daughter struggle. Please take some comfort in knowing that your daughter will amaze you with her emotional courage and depth.
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