 I need some advice | |
Yesterday, I called my daughter at her fathers house and found out that her preschool teacher had come for a visit. When I questioned her father about this I found out that they were dating.
Please let me back track a bit. Our divorce has only been final for about 6 weeks. And up until one week ago we were still sleeping with one another. Doing things as a family. We had agreed when we seperated that we would not introduce someone to our daughter until we felt it was going somewhere. Now my ex says that things are getting serious with her and that is why he invited her over during his weekend.
Then last night they had a sleep over and she is still there today and will be sleeping over again tonight. My daughter today "Mother's Day" said to me that after we have our mothers day party she wants to go back to Daddy's and see Mrs. So-n-So because they were going to have another sleep over. I might add that this was said several times. She is only 3 1/2 years old.
Later on this afternoon she continued to say she wanted to go back and see her teacher, and that Mrs. So-n-So is her mommy.
Am I just being jealous or is out of line behaviour for the teacher (who by the way is only seperated form her husband) |