Originally Posted by fallon

chances are she probably is a good women but it is to soon for her to be sleeping over while the child is there. You made the right choice by not going to the school because your daughter will probably handle letting everyone know what she saw. The teacher made a poor choice by staying the night. You may not be able to control the relationship she has with your ex and you should probably just stay out of that other then letting know it really isn't a great idea to bring other women around so soon. Maybe make a deal with him that you'll both keep other men or women away from her for at least 6 months??? it just isn't good for her. When I left my ex I promised myself I would never let another man around her until I was sure I was spending the rest of my life with him. I feel very good about the choice I made and I am marrying the only other man she's ever seen me with in 2 wks. There's no reason for you daughter to have to go through dating with you guys. Stay in good graces with your ex as much as possbile and if he can't make that deal with you I hope you will consider making it with yourself. Your daughter will thank you for it someday. I really hope everything works out for you and your little girl