FooserX

I think the key to having a smooth separation is that both of you are in agreement...and you both want to end it.

If not, and from the sounds of your story it seems like your wife is going to lose it, then I don't see it being easy. There's always resentment on one end, and it just seeps through every little thing.

Your kids are really young too, and I think that's the worst age for them to deal with this.

Good luck Evil.

When do you spring this on the wife? Will she be surprised?