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yulia · 05-17-2008, 08:32 AM

I had a friend/co-worker who kept getting pregnant in spite some contraception she was using and kept aborting it. That time this subject wasn't as touchy for me as it is now, since I didn't have any kids myself back then. But after her third abortion (when she talked about it) I really got angry at such irresponsibility and asked her why can't she use condoms during those dangerous days on the top of whatever she uses normally for contraception. Her response was so awful "Neither me nor my husband like condoms". I told her that I bet her little helpless babies also didn't care to be killed, but she killed them anyway. She was angry with me for a day or two, but later on she did admit that it got her thinking.

Sometimes instead of doing/saying the right thing we are just too focused on not making a person feel guilty for doing the wrong one...