Teresa

Still sounds like you are trying to make him into someone he isn't....and that's going to drive him away if it continues. Other than the fighting, I don't really see anything he's doing that is all that upsetting. Perhaps if you let him have the freedom to be who he is, to be friends with the people he wants to be friends with, you can convince him to curtail the fighting. Compromise can be a good thing.

If the fighting continues, then I would insist on him seeing a counselor. Family counseling, or at least counseling for you and him, might not be a bad idea anyhow.

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