Quote:
Originally Posted by budnkota  that's a very good point. And another thing that concerns me about these kinds of things. These little girls have no idea what's to come - and if she makes a choice to have sex and regrets it later, she may feel even more guilty about it later, because she's "broken a promise." (the fact that it's a promise her father made for her just creeps me out and seems kind of incest-like, if that makes any sense...). It's easy for kids to end up on a vicious cycle. |
The "Broken Promise" part is probably what concerns me the most. Young girls do not need to be made to feel they let their dads, family, and God, down for what may, or may not, have been a mistake.
In this thread or another thread, I had a posted I worked at Pizza place and the there women talked about their sex lives frequently. Well, at some point they each told their personal story of loosing their virginity. One gal (about 22), confessed to having lost her virginity at 12 and said for years she felt very very guilty for what amounted to just a couple of minutes of sex with a 13 year old boy. The guilt centered around "Good Girls don't have sex" and "Good Girls don't don't have sexual desires". It took her several years to sort it all out and realize that what she did wasn't very smart for a 12 year old girl, but her life didn't spin out control because she had sex one time with a boy keep pressuring her to have sex.