ljmahr

I agree with Music-dad. If he doesn't want to know anything why tell him? Especially when there is a court order. I don't see why you would want him to know doc appts and such if he isn't interested in knowing? Something that took me a long time to realize is: You can not force someone to be a good parent, they have to want to. It was one of the hardest lessons I had to learn with my oldest 2 dd's father. It sounds to me like you just want what is best for your ds and you think it's having a father. Why would he want a father who doesn't care about doc appts or other appts? I would run everything by my lawyer before I did anything.

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Laura

Mommy to 4 beautiful girls and 1 handsome boy