Pouncy

I'm just glad you are so excited about being a father. It sounds like you are making a good amount of money right now, but I can understand trying to save and move to a new place while covering your current expenses can be very difficult.
Do you have anything in savings? Is there any way her family can help you get out there?
You may just have to buy a plane ticket and get out there. It would be rough, but you'd be together and the job hunting would go a lot faster.
It's a tight spot. I hope something opens up for you soon!