freezieframe

thanks so much for listening and replying, it really helps alot. I called around today, and I've found a group counseling session for thurs nite(dang, I have to miss grey's anatomy!!). she called today, but I missed her call. I'm much calmer than I was, just seeing her and letting her talk made me feel so much better, b/c even though it IS scary to listen to, if she talks enough, she will hear what she's saying and realize it's a little crazy. at least that's what I'm hoping for. hubby's not too good with it just yet, but he cried for 3 mos BEFORE she left for college....lol he has 2 children from his previous marriage, and is really close with his son, but not his other daughter. that's another crisis story in the family, and we lived thru that one, so we'll live thru this too.

once again, I so appreciate the advice, and the shoulder. I will keep you posted.....