mmynedshlp

No he shouldnt have needed to take his daughter out to the tent. this was his sons bonding time his special time alone with his own attetnion he needs as to not be jelous of his sister.

No your wife should of made plans for another night. What she did was totally selfish. though she does need time out too but not during a time you have already made plans.

You did the right the thing witht he kids but in all honesty its ok for you to be mad just know you could of made her feel more guilty by telling her how upset your son was that his night was ruined and how worried you were that you could not reach her if there was ever an emergency. ( if she wouldnt of felt guilty then your family needs therapy because there would be more issues than this that is not all let out)

So I do hope you do make special time for her to have time to herself with her friends too.
I kind of feel that there may be more communication issues than what is said here.