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Here i will save everyone the aggrivation
Well, since I have some good news, I thought I should update. There was a point that I took my ring off (for a week) and officially stated that I was not married in my heart any more and that I wanted a divorce. It sort of really made up both to wake up, talk (a lot), look at things differently. Without even trying hard, our attitude did change a lot and we almost don’t argue any more. It’s not about “trying” not to argue and hold back, but rather the whole attitude shifted so much that we don’t *have to* argue any more to get to an agreement. Our relationship got so much better in any way after that event. I once again remember why I fall in love with this incredible person.

To make things even more interesting, Daniel (my husband) shared with me that his parents used to argue like crazy for about first 25 years of their marriage. But there was a point when his dad got seriously sick, lost a lot of weight. It shifted their relationship so much that they barely argued after that (and that was 20 years ago). Who knows, maybe it runs in the family LOL!

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