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Old 06-11-2008, 01:58 PM   #13
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Default Re: advice for being independent for 5 yo

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Originally Posted by sarushjr View Post
I'm going to take a bit of a different position on this. Yes, ultimately there should be a united front of the child. But, at this point, he is your "boyfriend". He is not your fiance or your husband. Therefore, quite honestly, it's up to him on how to raise his son.
And here I came to say that.


You're not the mom. You're a girlfriend who could come or go at any time. His son is his forever. If you don't like the situation, find a new guy? There's 6 billion of them to choose from.
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