Originally Posted by mmynedshlp

You will need to document all conversations. All visitations and pull any records of any law offenses if they were criminal or abusive. Those thank god are permnant.
You need to find out if he fought for his first child or if he let the mother have it without a fight. There might be good reason in that court paperwork you will need as evidence. Your word will not work in court. You will need documented evidence as to why you want your child supervised during visitation.
In the mean time listen to your friends. DO CALL the police if you ever feel threatened. Get the case numbers. DO file a restraining order if he threatens you or harms you in anyway. Save your paperwork.
Keep being nice but remember if you are doing the right thing the law is on your side with proof. No evidence and they dont care.