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Originally Posted by josie  He seems to be happy enough, but is there anything I can do for him instead of him having to feel as though he's the one having to do things for me? |
That is really difficult because you may just have a really sensitive boy. I do so I kind of know where you are coming from. My son really picks up on my feelings so I have to make sure to keep all the feelings of insecurity, fear, lonliness on a tight reign because I don't want him to feel that as well. Do you notice him picking up on your feelings? It's hard to explain but I think you would notice if you watched him for a bit. I had to make sure that he knew I was there to protect him and make sure he was happy so he could be a little boy and not the "man of the house". Sometimes that consists of something as little as changing your outlook.
I personally would continue to allow him to sleep in your bed, I see nothing wrong with it. He will grow out of it soon.