Good Wolf

Pain is not a good teacher. Pain teaches your children that they solve problems by using pain.

You already told her it is not a good word and reinforce it if she says it again. Do the same in regards to her hitting. You don't hit her hand and tell her not to hit. That doesn't make sense to me and I'm a grown man. I can see where it might confuse a toddler.

I would also speak to your husband about your teens language and start punishing him for it, not you three year old daugther that doesn't know any better.

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Dad always thought laughter was the best medicine, which I guess is why several of us died of tuberculosis.