Dadu2004

Obviously, you can't take that action back. It is unacceptable for a child to disrespect a parent as your daughter did, and deserves a harsh punishment. I don't condone spanking, but don't apologize for it as you'll come across weak and willing to put up with that behavior, which will only increase the problem.

I know that you feel bad. If you make it a one time deal, or use it only sparingly when a severe situation happens, you'll begin to feel better. Just try other punishment methods to get her attention if spanking makes you feel so horrible.

BTW, welcome!

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