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Old 06-30-2008, 08:21 PM   #5
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Originally Posted by fallon View Post
treat her like a child...I'm sorry but that what she is. She has no business talking to you like that and I hope for you it isn't to late to fix this. Your daughter needs structure and boundaries. It's wonderful that she has achieved so much and it sounds like she is a great girl who you love very much. She needs to respect you though, you've earned it and it's time you let her know that.

Fallon Nailed it she is Child take it from a Mom who has these ages of teens 19,16,13 ( I also have 26,24,21) there are younger ones as well 11,8,6,3 and 10 months I have never had any of them ever cuss at me. I think if fine if you want your kids to like you but if you never laid boundaries,structure and consiquences. Then you will have this type of fall out. I wish you luck but just remember that they dont have to like you and do not have to be thier friend.


Gina

PS my adult kids joke today and are grateful for the old school up bringing. I am sure with her being such a well adjust daughter she will see in the end its the best thing for her.
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