Thanks for the replies girls. I've been leaning more towards your answers than holding it in for a few more years.
He's a brilliant boy. He is extremely smart and very perceptive. But he's also very sensitive. I think he 'knows' the truth, just doesn't want to hurt me or hurt himself by coming right out and asking.
I guess my main concern is, I don't want him mad at me for keeping it a secret, that's why I'm wanting to tell him. I don't want him to think I didn't want to tell him or didn't give him the opportunity to 'meet' his bio father.
Thanks for the advice, Mindy and Nikita, and Nikita, thanks for sharing your story!
