mom2many

I see what people are saying, but here is a fact, knowing who your dad is doesn't mean you know his biology,most woman don't sit down with their husbands and go "Ok know tell me every family member who has had this, or does this run in your family?". But this is information that the clinic would be able to provide, they get the most extensive information on the prospective donor. Knowing who your father is doesn't make life easier, fuller, richer, it doesn't do anything but give yo the name of the man who planted his seed in you mom's belly.

Adoption, is such a great thing, but it isn't the same as being pregnant, I am not talking about a parents love for their adopted child, I have 2 that aren't bio mine, and I love them the same as the ones I did, but I am talking about the first heartbeat, the first kick, the first time you have to run to the toilet cause lunch is coming back up. The first twinge that the baby is coming. And then the emotions of being handed your slimy little bundle that amazingly came out of your body.

In a truly perfect world every child would be loved and raised by those who created them, but our world isn't perfect, that is a sad fact. Maybe one day that world will exsist but until then, a woman should have the right to have children any way they want, so long as they are able to properly care for them who are we to judge.

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Jennifer, mom to some wonderful kids!