I agree with Fallon that you are doing just fine. They will drink milk when they want it. One trick I did try is getting some sugar Free chocolate syrup and give my son a treat once in a while and give him chocolate milk or chocolate soy milk. Most of the time he really likes the yogurt and cheese and he is extremely healthy.
You will do just fine!!
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Missy~
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