i agree, make a home for you in the house. Get her things that she can enjoy and keep there so she will not ask for your stuff and can enjoy her own things without mommy. It is unfortunate that the mother is being this way, but dont stoop to her level. If you continue to talk to her and be there for her and show support she will come around. She is in a hard place and doesnt want to be punished for talking to you, but she has shown just in simple acts that she does like and respect you but is in a torn place. You are young and it is difficult but if you love this man you will need to find ways that work for the two of you when you are around her.
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Missy~
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