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Originally Posted by mom2many  Seriously, call CPS about the face slapping, it will only work to your BF's benefit when it comes to custody of the little girl.
Here is the saddest part of all, there is nothing you can do about what the mom says, all you can do is continue to be there and support and love the little girl, who is the one stuck in the hardest position of all.
Get her stuff that is for your house only, don't let but maybe one or two things go to moms, make a pretty box where she can keep all of her personal things, so everytime she comes to visit, it will be waiting for her, maybe do a girls day where you two can go and get things to put in the box, it doesn't sound like you guys are having issues bonding, that is a good thing.
Her wanting everything you have is very normal, you can say no to most, but pick something you are ok with losing and let her have it, it sounds like she is looking up to you. Then the part where she went through the bag and didn't appear to excited, that is also a kid thing, especially at that age, the true test of whether or not they like it is if they use it, she did you saw and recognized it. Dad did right telling her not to be rude, we sometimes forget when they are that age that they are still learning all the finer points of politeness, this comes in time with a lot of patience, of course if mom isn't teaching it it will take longer.
I have more to say but I am out of time I will try to get on later if you still want the help! |
i said somethig to my boyfriend about the cps and i guess he talked to his mom about it and they think the childs exxagerating. i mean even so i told him he needs to bring it to the moms attention asap because she might not be exxagerating. The things we bought her are staying here which i hate in a way because a lot of was things she couldve used for school like crayons and cute little notebooks and pens but i guess id rather her just use them here than them getting thrown out. I kinda figured her acting like was an age thing but my boyfriend was so stuck on its because of her mom and that when they were married he was the only one teaching her right things and now that she doesnt live with him all the child is learning is what the mom is teaching her. They do live with her mom also so im hoping that she will at least teach her right things if her own mom wont but all ive been hearing from people is that her mom is just as bad.
whats shes been telling his friends i dont care about anymore because they all know its not true but it just bothers me that they still talk to her when my boyfriend even asked them not to because of her lying all the time and that its disrespectful to me, which i agree with because they shouldnt want to talk to her anymore, they all just claim she always calls them like 10 times a day and always write them on myspace and such. so i dont know what to do about that because only two of his best friends have NOTHING to do with her but the other 3 still talk to her.
but thanks for the help! im def gonna keep her stuff here from now on except maybe a couple things!