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When I turned 18, my mom let Eli's dad spend the night with me in my bed whenever. And then.... ELI! =D lol. And by the way, hwnorth, I was on the pill. Tell that to the judge. Good thing I wasn't allowed at 16. I was sexually active then, but I know having the chance to be CONSTANTLY sexually active at 18 made my chances of getting pregnant like a huuuge percentage more likely than then. I actually got pregnant at 19, had him at 20. But I was still living with my mom at the time, you get it.

That's just downright irresponsible of a parent to let a boyfriend or girlfriend spend the night, and birth control is no excuse, my son is living proof of that. You can never guarantee you can't get pregnant. I've heard of women getting pregnant after having their tubes tied! My Aunt got pregnant with 6 kids on birth control!

If you let your kids spend the night in the same bed, KIDS being the keyword there, you just don't care that much about them and I'm sorry if that's harsh but I lived it. It was my own fault, but if my mom had treated me more like a child than an adult, then I wouldn't have had to grow up so fast.

Now that I think back on it, I would NEVER EVER allow my kids to have romantic sleepovers in my home. They can wait until they have their own place for that. I mean I don't have anything terribly against parents who make sure one stays on the couch in a different room, but the same room/ The same bed??? All night?!? That would gross me out, the thought of two kids 15 and 16 in the other room actually having sex. That's just discusting to let them do that right under your nose. And I'm 98% sure that's what their doing. I mean come on. I mean me and my boyfriend at 18 and 19 was irresponsible, but them at 15 and 16 that's just wrong. They are way too young. Might as well let your 8 and 9 year olds go at it in the next room while your at it. Geez. I know they're doing it, but giving them a place to do it right on the other side of a door from you? If it was quiet enough, you could probably hear them moaning down the hall. I know I'm being incredibly harsh with this, but I think she should think of it like this for once as opposed to ohh she's mature and on birth control, it's ok I want to be her friend.

What is wrong with the world these days. Sorry I'm all mean and rude, really I know I'm being inappropriate, but..... Ugh.

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