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Originally Posted by Mindy  Shame teaches nothing, and I stand by that. |
I disagree with this somewhat. Shame can be a consequence for certain choices that one makes. Ideally shame
should be a result of making a bad choice. I'm not taking about shame to carry for the rest of one's life but simply being ashamed for behaving inappropriately and learning from that experience.
The consequences for actions at the childhood age are dramatically less than what they become in adulthood. IMO, it's better to learn those lessons now before the consequences become jail, addiction... etc.