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Originally Posted by evilbrent  is it ok for me to put my children's happiness ahead of my own? |
I think that's a requirement of good parenting.
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Is it really ok to let myself get sucked down into my wife's depression just because she's my wife?
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no.
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Is it really ok to raise children in a loveless marriage?
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You took vows to be with her for the rest of your life. Not just till warm fuzzies were gone.
I think the love part comes and goes. If she's depressed, get her some help. (Which sounds like you're trying, but she wasn't seeing someone right after her suicide attempt?) Cook healthy meals. Invite her to go on a walk.
I would only say divorce if you think she's a danger to the children and you were willing to fight for full custody.