Dadu2004

Wow Brent...that's alot going through your mind right now. Is she interested at all in counseling? It sounds to me as if she could use some professional help. If truly she has depression (diagnosed), then she needs to be on mediaction and seeking professional treatment. The good news is that if your insurance doens't cover it, you can find places that work on a sliding scale based on your pay.

Brother, do what you can to save your marraige. I've been through a divroce, and the outcome isn't pretty. If you go through the divorce without having tried everything you can to salvage the situation, you'll kick yourself forever. You'll always be wondering, "what if I tried...." Try everything. Do everything. Get whatever help is needed. That way, if it comes to it, you can go into the divorce knowing you did whatever you could to save the marraige.

I may post more about this in a bit, when I've had time to digest your situation...hang in there friend. I'll be praying for you and your wife.

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