I got pregnant at 21 by my BF of 5 years. He told me to have an abortion. When i asked him why, he told me that he was having a baby with another woman in a few weeks! That was 21 years ago. I now have a 20 year old daughter and she has a half sister who is 6 months older. She met her birth dad when she was 7. He has spent the last 13 years letting her down, but she knows it is not her fault. He tries to be a dad when he can, but he just can't do it. My DD is glad she met him, and is even happier that she lives with me :-)
If you want to talk to her, let me know and I will give you her information. I know she will be happy to share with you her experience and how she deals with it.
Let us know what you decide...
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