Hi
evilbrent,
Many thanks for your most useful guidelines!
I have indeed noticed my original way of thinking and it had a very autocratic or even dictatorial nature.
I am making the changes now
BTW, previously in this thread, I was explained by Kaytee the harshness of the 'pepper on the tongue' event and I was explained a more child friendly way that will also teach them how to break certain bad habits. I also agreed on her points.
Thanks again
Christian