FooserX

>>>since I'm the bio parent, I get the final say.


I don't know your situation....but if my wife ever pulled that line out of her butt, it would take all of 1 day for me to get divorce papers ready. :P

We had a long talk before marraige that if I'm going to take over the dad role (he was 2 at the time), then I'm the dad and I get full rights to be the dad.

That's almost like me having the final say on selecting what new car or house we buy because I bring home more money than my wife.