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Originally Posted by fallon  since my dd is so young I personally choice not to over ride him just because he isn't her "real" father. I think it makes it harder when I don't agree with him I always think to myself "I'm her mother" but I don't say it because I know he is just trying to take his rightful place as the only father she will have |
Oh, I don't override DH in things.....we discuss things before we set a consequence, unless it's a matter of a rule that has been in place for a long time, and the consequence for breaking it is well known to everyone. We don't just give out consequences off the cuff...we discuss them, we make them fit the misbehavior, etc.