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Originally Posted by Teresa  Oh, I don't override DH in things.....we discuss things before we set a consequence, unless it's a matter of a rule that has been in place for a long time, and the consequence for breaking it is well known to everyone. We don't just give out consequences off the cuff...we discuss them, we make them fit the misbehavior, etc. |
that's usually how we handle things, inless of course he isn't home when it's time to punish her for something. I think it's best that way because like last night...we didn't agree...at first we did, no outside time, punishment fit the crime...I thought it was over...than he throws out things like no computer time and I was like
but I went with what he said and than when dd wasn't around I explained to him that at 4 one punishment is usually enough to bring home the point, ya know. Now if it was something that happened a lot then it would be time to be a little harsher on the punishments.
I didn't at all mean to imply that I think you override your DH on his choices
