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Old 02-26-2008, 04:02 PM   #11
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your children will never be truely happy until you yourself are truely happy. It took me a long time to realize that but once I did it made hard choices a lot easier

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You know...even if you HATE each other, you shouldn't be yelling in front of your kids.

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your children will never be truely happy until you yourself are truely happy. It took me a long time to realize that but once I did it made hard choices a lot easier
If you don't mind sharing, how old were your kids when you divorced? how did they handle it?
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I left my husband right after my daughter turned 2...she handled it very well. I was shocked but really it made sence. Things were calm, mom was happier, she felt safe because she was with me.
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What are you guys even arguing about?

What are the deep issues, not the surface ones that cause all the bickering?
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I agree that you should never argue in front of your children unless they are going to see compromise and a healthy solution to the matter you are argueing about.
Yulia, your children are still very young and would handle a divorce just fine. When they get closer to five then they emotionally can become a wreck and understand a bit more. The older, the harder it is.


Fooser, my marriage is a pain in the arse that's why he lives four hours away You have to out smart them and get them to move away thinking it's for a job..hahaha No way in hell could I ever live with my ps again. no no nooooooooooo
I love him as a friend and have been through all that arguing and fighting and even filed three times and I do not EVER want to go back there. We are friends (sometimes with benefits but I have to drink a few) lol
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Have you tried counselling?
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Maybe you and Yulia should hook up. Don't you have a thing for immigrants?
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