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Trina · 04-30-2008, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by jtee

By the time you are 35 you'll be asking "How come my husband doesn't want it as much I do...." and be longing for the good o'l days like when you were in your 20s.

I'm almost 45 and haven't reached that point yet. Knowing DH, I doubt I ever will. LOL!

jtee · 04-30-2008, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Trina

I'm almost 45 and haven't reached that point yet. Knowing DH, I doubt I ever will. LOL!

I say that because my wife became more interested in sex in her 30s. I'm not complaining none.

Trina · 04-30-2008, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by jtee

I say that because my wife became more interested in sex in her 30s. I'm not complaining none.

Of course not.

With the exception of when my kids were really little, DH and I have always had a similar sex drive, his slightly higher than mine. However, I must admit that I'm more of a crock pot, and he's a microwave. Meaning he's good to go quickly, but I need to be warmed up. It took him a long time to figure out that flirting and foreplay can go a loooong way. LOL! So do chick flicks and his helping get the kids to bed.

Lissa, maybe you're a crock pot as well, and your DH needs to learn the art of warming you up and getting you in the mood.

jtee · 04-30-2008, 05:52 PM

Yeah Trina a lot of guys need to learn to slow way down.

I had a roommate in college who wasn't the greatest looking guy, just average, but boy did the college girls who dated him love spending the night with him. I don't know what his trick was, but once a girl started having sex with the guy, it was always the best sex they had up to that point in their life. And it wasn't just in the bedroom, overall he had a knack for listening and understanding woman.