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Teresa · 06-11-2008, 06:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Sirk

The thread isn't deleted you dumb t***.

Oh please....do we REALLY need to use this sort of language against other posters? Since we're all SUPPOSED to be adults here, can't we try to behave like it, instead of using junior high/high school potty mouthed insults?

musicmom · 06-11-2008, 06:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Teresa

Oh please....do we REALLY need to use this sort of language against other posters? Since we're all SUPPOSED to be adults here, can't we try to behave like it, instead of using junior high/high school potty mouthed insults?

Teresa........sometimes it must be done

You know we have all said shat that was dumb or out of place or thought it.
Let he who has not sinned cast the first stone ring a bell to anyone? Like no one has EVER wanted to call Yules a name before? It done and over. I'm pretty sure Yulia with her spunky self will pull through it. It's only her nature.

*getting a dt mountain dew*

Teresa · 06-11-2008, 07:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Sirk

A kick in the butt is a step forward

She's been talked about in the mod forum for forever. People have tried reason with her. People have tried to be direct. None of it has worked.

She wanted attention, she got it. She wanted to be disruptive, ya'll are letting her.

What's disruptive is the ADMIN using abusive language toward posters. Give her the facts, plain and simple, and let it go at that. If she's going against guidelines (never heard the 30 day one in ANY forum, btw), tell her, and then take appropriate action if she persists. Act like an adult, and treat us like adults. That's all we ask.

Kaytee · 06-11-2008, 07:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Teresa

What's disruptive is the ADMIN using abusive language toward posters. Give her the facts, plain and simple, and let it go at that. If she's going against guidelines (never heard the 30 day one in ANY forum, btw), tell her, and then take appropriate action if she persists. Act like an adult, and treat us like adults. That's all we ask.

well said!!

Teresa · 06-11-2008, 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by musicmom

Teresa........sometimes it must be done

You know we have all said shat that was dumb or out of place or thought it.
Let he who has not sinned cast the first stone ring a bell to anyone? Like no one has EVER wanted to call Yules a name before? It done and over. I'm pretty sure Yulia with her spunky self will pull through it. It's only her nature.

*getting a dt mountain dew*

Please don't lump us all together. I do not curse, and I don't name call, so I would never use the offensive statement Sirk used toward Yulia, or anything remotely resembling it. Doesn't matter if it was directed toward Yulia, or you, or me, or whomever...it was inappropriate, especially from an admin.

musicmom · 06-11-2008, 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Teresa

Please don't lump us all together. I do not curse, and I don't name call, so I would never use the offensive statement Sirk used toward Yulia, or anything remotely resembling it. Doesn't matter if it was directed toward Yulia, or you, or me, or whomever...it was inappropriate, especially from an admin.

I apologize I meant in general. I guess I see it differently. There are so many of us who are open and outspoken and are blunt. There are some who are soft (nothing wrong with that).
Sirk came in at a tough point. Does she be jtee and piss everyone off? Does she relax and let us know she's one of us (most of us). Does she put up with all or nothing? Cut her some slack. It's not like Yulia hasn't dished it out.
Being called a name is not a big deal, you brush yourself off and begin again. Sometimes you need to swallow that pill and realize you are a twat, flat plain out and simple.
Twat is actually funny. I guess it's how you look at it or how you were raised.
So should we do like that gum commercial and call each other "you pineapple licker"??? That works. I can do that.