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Cthru · 06-20-2008, 01:12 PM

Sorry you got offended!

musicmom · 06-20-2008, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Sirk

So the 3 year old is shipped off to moms, shipped off to dads, pawned off on grandma and he's having problems with violence and swearing. And it's worked out ok?

Ok now I know what Stepmom is talking about. Sirk, it's your tone in the way you are speaking. I don't think this child is "shipped off or pawned". You are coming across tacky. Just my two cents.
I can see being the "board mom" if that's what you want to call yourself but I think you should hold youself as a person to a higer standard then you are showing on the board. I'd suggest a small bit of tact.

musicmom · 06-20-2008, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by stepmother22

no he is RAISED by stepmom and dad,, babysat by grandmaw and i can't help or even know what happens at moms house and i dont appreciate the attitute whenever you dont know my situation or whats going on in my sons life, if it were up to me we would have him all the time but its not up to us its up to the court, i can't make a judge rule of my behalf

Stepmother, I apologize on behalf of most of our members on the way Sirk just posted to you. It was rude. I was off yesturday so I didn't see any of this. Please don't allow someone's lact of cooth make you leave this board.

musicmom · 06-20-2008, 01:19 PM

You'd have to look at a few posts to understand why stepmommy said what she did. I just found a post that was uncalled for. I hope SM stays around.

fallon · 06-20-2008, 01:21 PM

if she really felt something was uncalled for she probably should have contacted a mod rather then blaming an entire board and being crazy dramatic about it

Sirk · 06-20-2008, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by musicmom

Ok now I know what Stepmom is talking about. Sirk, it's your tone in the way you are speaking. I don't think this child is "shipped off or pawned". You are coming across tacky. Just my two cents.
I can see being the "board mom" if that's what you want to call yourself but I think you should hold youself as a person to a higer standard then you are showing on the board. I'd suggest a small bit of tact.

Sure. I'll go call her abusive instead. I bet questioning whether or not her situation was good is what drove her off.

musicmom · 06-20-2008, 02:45 PM

No, you calling her all kinds of Bullshat is what is driving her off. She asked for help and all you did was degrade her. WTF is wrong with you?

meow_173 · 06-20-2008, 04:07 PM

What post was uncalled for?

musicmom · 06-20-2008, 05:40 PM

I did not hijack a thread Sirk but only stated that your comments were rude to this poster. You go and delete my posts in support of another poster?? Plus give me and infraction??? You are the biggest name caller on this board and did so with this parent. I hope you get an infraction as well.

musicmom · 06-20-2008, 05:41 PM

In the other post but Sirk removed all of my posts of course that defended what she said was wrong. I never named called however Sirk does and I get the infraction. Double standard.

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