Sirk

or...

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meow_173

CLearly we are not seeing eye to eye on this. and you still never answered my questions. So let whatever bygones that are festering in you or whatever is going on, don't let it affect this board. i am just so done dealing with childish highschool bullshit behaviour.

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Sirk

I answered them several times. You've already made up your mind on what it's about. What can ya do?

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meow_173

*sighs......dont' you see....its this type of behaviour and whatever that just isn't needed. yes i don't think she should have been banned because if there were so many things that were wrong with her, then you would have banned her when you first got here. But you didn't. I'm done with this topic.......its like going Around and aroundAround and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around Around and around

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Sirk

nope. Like I said in another thread, if I believed every PM I got, most of the regular posters would be banned.
I'm taking that, plus the behavior I see, and making decisions.

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meow_173

The my point stands that it should have been done ages ago, and maybe in different cicumstances. Rather then banning her when you were in a heated argument, maybe sending her a pm and letting her know in an adult siuation.

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Sirk

Let's try this again:

The OP of the parenting thread said he didn't want drama and off topic in his thread. can't say I blame him.
I moved her posts to where it would be relevant. She could have gone on about Sirk Sucks all she wanted.
She continued in the thread I removed them from.
She got an infraction.
She went for a 3rd thread.
k that's enough for me.
she's STILL welcome to rage against the machine all she wants on a forum where it would be relevant.

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HappyMomma

Meow... I love you, but....

The way I watched all this go down today, I have to admit I kept thinking..."Mmmkay, MM has been know to say some abrasive s##t and now she's trying to call out someone else on it. Then I progressively watched MM stalk and assault. Sorry, I have to agree on this one.

Just my 2 cents.

<3

... and BTW, I had to practice a whole lot of restraint not to say some of the things that came to my mind.

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Cthru

my observation.. (and i know i should keep my mouth shut)

MM was right and was clearly defending the poster for her feelings of being offended. I too think the comment in the particular thread was uncalled for.. anyone would be offended. This combined with the way yulia was handled does lead one to believe that for a 'mediator' (sent from the parent company) there are much better ways to handle these situations - in a more adult manner. As I understood, Sirk was sent to keep peace not stir the pot even more. Now with MM being banned for trying to say something leads me to believe there may be more of an issue here than what we started with.

I'm staying out of it from here on out - but I have to say I'm not impressed with how things are being handled around here in the slightest.

I run my own parenting forum as well and would never dream of addressing issues in this manner.

Hopefully things will get better soon.

Sirk

I agree. I did a search in the mod forum and they've been debating banning musicmom since 2007. She's had like 8 months worth of warnings.
It should have been done long before I got here. But it wasn't so I'll be the bad guy and catch the poop for it now.

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