busymomofmany

Is no one going to talk about the elephant in the room? You are sleeping with a man who is no longer your husband. How confusing is that for your daughter?

spankys3304

My daughter has no idea that her father and I were still sleeping together, besides the fact that he is still her father. We discussed only a few months ago that we were going to work on our relationship and work on getting back together.

She never woke up in the middle of the night and found us in bed together like she did her teacher.

meow_173

Ok, so you got a divorce or separation......you're still sleeping with each other, your hubby as a gf; and if sleepoing with you as well makes it cheating on the gf.

I think you're suffering from jealousy issues. mind you i would be as well if i was sleeping with a guy who is my ex hubby and he has a younger gf that he's also sleeping with....*rolls eyes*

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FooserX

While I think Spanky sleeping with her husband while he has a gf is pretty dumb - that is her decision. She'll have to deal with all of the hurt that goes along with that.

But she's right...the child wasn't involved in it...and as far as the child knows, they are still mom and dad.

I can see why the Dad is doing this. Pretty much ALL of my friends take the easy road. It's easy to hop into bed with another warm body as opposed to working on yourself or thinking of your kids.

spankys3304

I'm sorry if I didn't make it clear earlier, The first I found out about this gf was on Saturday, the after my DD told me. I had no idea... I thought he and I were working on us.

.:Kalli Rae:.

Your ex sounds like my ex. Dirtbag. I'm sorry to hear that.

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spankys3304

BTW she's not youger

meow_173

But you get my drift right?

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spankys3304

Not really, I had no idea he had a GF until my DD told me on Saturday, and none of your response has anything to do woth the issue that my DD saw Daddy in bed with his teacher and that is the issue here.

My DD did not want to go to school today. I wonder why that is?

HappyMomma

I think he needs a lock on his bedroom door.

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