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Parenting Headlines Discuss Teen girls made pregnancy pact in the Parenting News Feeds forums; Originally Posted by Sirk
If not wanting my grandchild raised by a selfish teenage mother and a homeless man makes me a bitch, I'll wear it with pride.
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06-20-2008, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Sirk If not wanting my grandchild raised by a selfish teenage mother and a homeless man makes me a bitch, I'll wear it with pride.
Just so long as she doesn't stick hot sauce in the kid's mouth? | Then I guess you are labeled then. Congrats. She didn't put it in that childs mouth she was asking about the suggestion she was told. My kids eat hot sauce on their food. Oh wait......that's child abuse? A young teen screwed up so you would just call her names and degrade her? That's child abuse. I guess you and I see pride differently. I take pride on being a great mother and encouraging others to be the same. It's rare a 24 yr old guy would honestly be homeless. He may have moved out of his parents or something but I doubt he is homeless just hanging out ready to impregnant some young unsuspecting girl. I don't know what your beef is with step mommy but you are honestly being a bit on the foolish side Sirk. |
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Originally Posted by Sirk If not wanting my grandchild raised by a selfish teenage mother and a homeless man makes me a bitch, I'll wear it with pride.
Just so long as she doesn't stick hot sauce in the kid's mouth? | Then I guess you are labeled then. Congrats. She didn't put it in that childs mouth she was asking about the suggestion she was told. My kids eat hot sauce on their food. Oh wait......that's child abuse? A young teen screwed up so you would just call her names and degrade her? That's child abuse. I guess you and I see pride differently. I take pride on being a great mother and encouraging others to be the same. It's rare a 24 yr old guy would honestly be homeless. He may have moved out of his parents or something but I doubt he is homeless just hanging out ready to impregnant some young unsuspecting girl. I don't know what your beef is with step mommy but you are honestly being a bit on the foolish side Sirk. |
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06-20-2008, 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted by musicmom She didn't put it in that childs mouth she was asking about the suggestion she was told. | Quote:
Originally Posted by stepmother22 my mother n law puts a lil hot sauce in his mouth, i told her that was fine |
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06-20-2008, 03:07 PM
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Children: Lita - 8, Anya - 3 | Re: Teen girls made pregnancy pact | |  No beef. She said something, I had an opinion, you had an opinion on what I said. Welcome to forums. |
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06-20-2008, 03:13 PM
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Children: One boy 8, twin girls 7. | Re: Teen girls made pregnancy pact | | I've been to this forum for a while thanks. You didn't give an opinion you gave a statement. Know when your wrong Sirk. No need to repost what I wrote I have a great memory. I know what is said. I don't miss a thing. This isn't a debate. I've said my peice, like it or leave it. No difference to me. I just have new views on you. Welcome to my world  |
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06-20-2008, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Sirk no it wasn't.
Raised by a teenage girl who got pregnant because 'everyone else is doing it' and is going to want to ditch the baby for prom and dates, and a 20-something homeless man?
I would want better for my grandchild. |
With that mentality, and although what she did was past her better judgment, doesn't mean that her support system of family goes down the tubes.
If anything, the parents need to step in and try to help their daughters, maybe by counselling or something. But dropping them just contributes to the problem.
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06-20-2008, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted by meow_173
With that mentality, and although what she did was past her better judgment, doesn't mean that her support system of family goes down the tubes.
If anything, the parents need to step in and try to help their daughters, maybe by counselling or something. But dropping them just contributes to the problem.
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06-20-2008, 05:02 PM
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Children: Lita - 8, Anya - 3 | Re: Teen girls made pregnancy pact | | I don't think love means supporting someone when they're doing wrong and hurting an innocent child. I correct my children when they're wrong, because I love them. |
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Originally Posted by Sirk I don't think love means supporting someone when they're doing wrong and hurting an innocent child. I correct my children when they're wrong, because I love them. | Love IS supporting someone when they do something wrong! How else do people learn from their mistakes, and when they do realise they have made an error, it is the love of a parent that htey can lean on.
To be politically correct, although these girls are pregnant, throwing them onto the street and disowning them would be hurting 2 children rather then one.
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06-20-2008, 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted by meow_173 Love IS supporting someone when they do something wrong! How else do people learn from their mistakes |  I can't even wrap my mind around that statement. You learn from your mistake by everyone supporting your mistake?
No... you learn from your mistakes when bad crap happens to you because of your actions.
Who said anything about throwing her out on the street? Jesus ya'll get over dramatic. |
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