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09-27-2007, 01:45 PM
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Discipline and Punishment are becoming a regular themes in many threads so it time to create a dedicated thread where parents can discuss and debate the issues. | ||
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09-27-2007, 02:37 PM
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great idea, who wants to start? lol
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09-28-2007, 03:48 AM
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I will! We have never used spanking as a discipline method, and we don't use timeouts for that either. Time outs, in our house, apply equally to adults as well as children, and are used as a cooling off period, whether it's because of emotions or physical activity. As far as discipline goes, when they were toddlers we used removal, redirection and repetition. If they were doing something they shouldn't, we removed them from the area, interested them in something else, and repeated as often as necessary. We used baby gates to keep them out of especially dangerous areas without doors, such as the kitchen. We kept doors to bathrooms and other people's bedrooms closed. As they got older, we used positive discipline, and natural and logical consequences. If their dirty clothes weren't in the hamper, they didn't get washed. If they forgot to do their homework, they had to deal with the consequences from the teacher. If grades were below a C, they needed more study time, so they didn't get to spend time with friends until the grades came back up. Any questions, feel free to ask! 
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09-28-2007, 07:21 AM
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I would never spank either, not my thing. No coffee=short posts
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09-28-2007, 07:24 AM
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LOL...so drink some coffee and get back to us later!!!
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09-28-2007, 07:25 AM
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09-28-2007, 07:32 AM
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yay you are out of coffee too, I can tell. lol
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10-09-2007, 05:14 PM
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what do you do when mom and dad don't agree on a punishment????
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10-09-2007, 05:29 PM
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go with mom!!!! lol in my house dad does very little punishing. He is just not home to do it very often. So right now I do most and he wil lput her in time our on occassion. Okay once he did after I told him too. lol
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