fallon

I'm so glad things are going so well for you. Those sound like great rewards to me, I think mom is just jealous that your idea worked. As far as her mom screwing it up...If your dd is anything like mine she will change her attitude and behavior depending on what she can get away with. When my dd is at my mom's I am amazed by the things that she will do or say (nothing crazy). She behaves like a child I don't even know when she's over there. She's not bad...just carzy spoiled because they allow it. Everytime she goes over my step dad has a wrapped present for her and when she wakes up the next day she'll say "papa, I haven't gotten a present today" in her sweetest voice. Now Hell would freeze over before she even considered trying that here or anywhere else, but ya know what my step dad does...he pulls out another present. Anyways the point of all that was really just to say that your dd will most likely change her behavior to suit whom ever is caring for her at the time. While that isn't the ideal...not much is these days

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