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difficult private matter with our pre-teen
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I think 11 years old is pretty young to be having sex and I would be concerned about your daughter's health being such a small girl, I ... | | |
07-29-2007, 03:41 PM
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  Children: I want hav 5 kids after I get married, but not before | Re: difficult private matter with our pre-teen | | Hi, WOW!.
I think 11 years old is pretty young to be having sex and I would be concerned about your daughter's health being such a small girl, I mean if she were to sleep with a boy who is older and larger, he might be too big for her if you know what I mean. I know when I was 11 I wasn't mature enough, and my sister who is now 11 wouldn't be able to either. Besides that she is afraid of sex, you couldn't get her to hold a boy's hand if you paid her.
I hope it goes well, I am very interested to hear how it goes in the future for her.
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07-30-2007, 12:49 PM
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Children: Jill born Jan 12, 1996 | Re: difficult private matter with our pre-teen | | Patti, yes it is a very young age to be having sex. Our daughter has been properly examined by a good doctor and suffered no health problems as a result of having had sex.
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07-30-2007, 06:03 PM
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  Children: I want hav 5 kids after I get married, but not before | Re: difficult private matter with our pre-teen | | Hi, your daughter is very different than my little sister. My sister likes boys, but is too shy to talk to any boy until she has been around him for a long time. If a new boy likes her and trys to talk to her, she gets nervious and doesn't say much. It is hard to see her being intimate with a boy before she gets married, but she is only 11, so there is plenty of time for her to adjust to boys. Right now she's having a hard time maturing, and I don't think she likes it very much right now. She's not use to having older boys paying more attention to her and she REALLY doesn't know what to say to them. One older boy even asked her to go to the movies once, and she REALLY had no idea what she should do or say. It is kinda funny, but to her older boys are very scary.
Hopoe all goes well with your daughter. She seems very nice, just maybe she made a bad decision, girls do that sometimes.
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07-30-2007, 08:34 PM
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Children: Nichole | Re: difficult private matter with our pre-teen | | thats the truth lol |
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07-30-2007, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Kaytee thats the truth lol | hehehe... i know i shouldn't laugh, but is kinda funny that two girls can be 11, and be so very different when it comes to boys.
I have tried to tell my sister to relax just a little and enjoy the having boys like her. She is pretty that is why they want be friends with her. oh well, it is not the end of the world or anything, she's just going through a phase or something.
Patti 
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07-31-2007, 08:04 AM
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Children: Nichole | Re: difficult private matter with our pre-teen | | hey at 11 she shouldn't like boys yet. Other then yay he's cute kinda thing. |
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07-31-2007, 01:00 PM
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Children: Jill born Jan 12, 1996 | Re: difficult private matter with our pre-teen | | Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaytee hey at 11 she shouldn't like boys yet. Other then yay he's cute kinda thing. | I think my daughter was born "boy crazy".
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07-31-2007, 02:11 PM
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Children: Nichole | Re: difficult private matter with our pre-teen | | I would have locked her up!!!! lol ok maybe not, but I would have contimplated it! |
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07-31-2007, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Kaytee I would have locked her up!!!! lol ok maybe not, but I would have contimplated it! | I understand, I have had humorous thoughts like that too 
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08-01-2007, 01:51 PM
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Children: Nichole | Re: difficult private matter with our pre-teen | | Everytime you post htings like this I get more concerned for your daughter. Not because of anything you do or don't do, but just that she seems to trust people way to much. This boy she had sex with was close to her, what will happen when she is 16 and her bf tells her he loves her, will she do it again? Or things like drugs when she gets older? She just seems like she is very trusting of anyone and that can be very dangerous as she gets older |
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