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08-09-2007, 12:36 AM
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Hi Jtee, did you put your daughter on restriction for like a million years for being completely intimate with her BF? If you didn't put her on restriction, what did you do to her instead? My friend is going to be using BC from now on. She never wants to be so scared about being late EVER again. It was the scariest thing that has ever happened to her EVER! Patti  | ||
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08-09-2007, 07:51 AM
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Your friend needs to stop having sex all together and so does Jtee's daughter.
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08-09-2007, 06:01 PM
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Patti, there is nothing to be sorry about. Your question does not offend me in any way. Last edited by jtee : 06-15-2008 at 11:41 PM. | ||
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08-09-2007, 09:05 PM
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We would all handle it differently. Every parent is different, we all do what we feel is best. There is no way to know who is right or wrong. You doing what you are doing may be perfect for your daughter and really wrong for another. I think you are doing what you feel is best.
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08-10-2007, 12:59 PM
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In my honest opinion, I think you've handled it in the best way. You haven't made out that sex is wrong, just not appropriate for someone of her age, and that she should wait until she is matureenough to fully understand it before she thinks about having sex again. I know as a preteen, if my parents had shouted at me for doing something, I would have wanted to do it more, but it sounds like she has been explained to very calmly why the restrictions have been put in place
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08-10-2007, 02:36 PM
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Anna, yes part of our objective is avoid the "forbidden fruit" problem of complete and absolute abstinence. Last edited by jtee : 06-15-2008 at 11:41 PM. | ||
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08-15-2007, 04:00 PM
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I use to go to a lot of sleep over when I was 10,11,12 and it was a lot of fun, espeically during the summer because we could stay up late. A couple of times we stay up so late that we saw the sun come up. And one time we stayed up all night and went to the beach the next day and I fell asleep after lunch. I got sunburned a little. Never fall alseep at the beach!!! Ouch!! At the sleep overs we did talk about boys and S-E-X somtimes, sometimes a lot. Girls do that at sleep overs and I think it is a pretty normal thing for girls. But we did a lot of other fun things too, so it not like we just talked about boys and S-E-X all the time. Patti PS... We never did drugs or anything at a sleep overs. Only one time did we drink some wine that was in frig. We kinda got in trouble for that.  Last edited by Patn : 08-15-2007 at 05:18 PM. | ||
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08-16-2007, 02:15 PM
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I'm pretty sure at 10-12 I never even thought about sex. I think kids are growing up way to quick these days, it's very sad | ||
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08-22-2007, 10:53 PM
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