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Old 07-12-2007, 08:00 AM   #31
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>>>The first post, in my opinion, was just rude. sorry.

You don’t have to apologize for thinking that, that’s fine. The last thing an uninvolved parent needs is coddling, so I’m not going to be nice when I think it’s their fault this 11 year old has now crossed a very serious line.

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>>>The first post, in my opinion, was just rude. sorry.

You don’t have to apologize for thinking that, that’s fine. The last thing an uninvolved parent needs is coddling, so I’m not going to be nice when I think it’s their fault this 11 year old has now crossed a very serious line.
I agree that some of your comments have come off as rude. I think you can disagree without being insulting and and still without "coddling".
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That is what I am here for. Make sure everyone is friendly even when we don't agree.
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I'm friendly. ----> 0:-)
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Thanks for the support Kaytee, In part I am just thinking out loud.

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Thats good that you don't take things personal, you shouldn't. I don't either. I do enjoy a good debate though. lol
It's more of a protection for all people reading this board. I would assume Tom agrees that this board should be friendly, no one wants to be coddled in any way here, well most don't. We want personal opinions otherwise say so. However I feel that we should feel comfortable being able to ask questions and to get those opinions in a open environment. I would hate for new members to read innapropriate comments (not that any were said, maybe a little rude but not something I feel needs to be edited or deleted). And since Tom has read this thread, he must agree lol. Anyways, I would hate for new people to come here and then feel that if they ask a question that they may get attacked. (obviously verbally nor physically lol)

And FOOSER, I am sure you are friendly. At least you use smiley faces, so you must be!!
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You're not going to get any disagreement from us on that statement.

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Well I won't argue that mistakes were made either. I don't think that you came to this board to say "hey everyone check out the mistakes we made!!!" I think you recognize the mistake and just wanted to vent and get advise on where to go from here. I think it is a great thread for other parents to see. I am truly sorry this happened to your family but is a great way to open up about sex and pre-teens.
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