Xero

Yeah, that's why I was saying use your judgement. You probably know what would happen if you said something. BUT you can't say for sure that the girl would even MENTION it to her dad. But maybe she would. That's what you have to think about.

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robi0413

I'm just worried about her feeling alone. Her father didn't want to buy her a bra at age 12... So I went ahead and did it because her nipples were showing through her shirt.. Thats how.. ... protective he is.. he thought she was too young for such things as bra's and tampons.. and my objective was.. "You dont want her to be prepared for her to suddenly start bleeding..?"

We live in a big city.. and I get scared because his opinion is.. "no boys," Which is why she was hiding her boyfriend. And I'd much rather her father hate me and me give her proper information on her curiousity, and let her know that she doesn't need to be forced into things, than let her father and everyone look away, pretend that she's not growing up, and for her to get into a mess that she has no clue who to turn to for..